Thursday, July 26, 2012

If beeswax can change color, why can't I?

Scene from a bee yard.
Once again this little candle business that started with a purchase of 500 lbs. of beeswax, though really, before that, with a couple of 10- and 20-pound purchases from a beekeeper I'd met who'd become a friend and a teacher, or, even before that, when I moved from a city to simply a place and ... well, how many beginnings can one story have? How many stories am I telling?

Today, just this one: from 500 lbs. of beeswax to Northern Michigan Beeswax to Pea Pickle Farm. All the same business started about three years ago. Yes, it's an ongoing identity crisis that has everything to do with me, the business remains the same, just all these different names, from the whimsical (500 lbs. ...) to the bland (Northern Michigan ...) with both being nothing but factual, as indeed I did start with 500 lbs. of northern Michigan beeswax and continue with the same, now working on my fourth lot of 500 pounds, so should the business be called 2000 lbs. of beeswax (and whaddaya get, another day older and deeper in debt ...)? Why move away from the facts? Why change the name? Why Pea Pickle Farm? What's that got to do with it?

When I started a business making custom jigsaw puzzles in 2003, I was living in Evanston, Illinois. A local Chicago TV reporter sought an interview, saying I fit a story he wanted to do on retirees not retiring, but starting new careers, and this career, this puzzle-making business, sounded interesting. Well. Publicity. Good. Never mind the fact that at age 47 I wasn't retiring nor had even had a career to speak of, just one job after another, none making me rich or securing my old age from dotage and destitution, all of which I told this reporter, and he said, sure, sure, fine, or something like that, and of course the piece, which quickly hit the 6 o'clock news, was all about retirees not sitting around twiddling their thumbs but doing fun stuff like starting puzzle businesses. In the segment I say something about making this change in my life, about starting a business and quitting a full-time job and moving to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan, and about how it's not a "midlife crisis," but a "midlife adventure."  Well. Not even my husband, now my ex-husband, bought that line. Yet here I am trying to sell myself and others, once again, a similar line: It's not an "identity crisis," it's "identity development."

The Palace Bathroom, circa early 2011.
Well, whatever you call it, the crisis began in 2004 when the puzzle business moved to the U.P., as it's called. Seven years later, with the pieces of that adventure scattered to the winds and the pieces of the beeswax venture coming together, I moved once again, to another part of the peninsula, to 18 acres of overgrown fields and a bit of swamp and a smattering of woods all bordered on one side, the north, by a beautiful ribbon of river. The house -- a 20-by-25-foot cabin constructed mostly of salvaged barn and silo wood and woefully and dreamily unfinished -- needed a lot of work, and I guess it still needs work, as everyone who sees it calls it "rustic." I've called my new home a "project," a "palace," then one recent day I left a phone message for a friend, my beekeeper friend, saying it was me, from Pea Pickle Farm, which just popped into my head and out of my mouth. It hung around, and I started thinking, "What is Pea Pickle Farm?" I came up with this:

Pea Pickle Farm is an imaginary place in a fleeting present, a place also, perhaps, in the past: a flourish of sweet peas, a dash of sour pickles, overgrown, long gone, one place, one thought, everywhere, everything, all the time. But Pea Pickle Farm must also be real because it is here that I exist, making natural beeswax candles from a wax created by honeybees in wildflower fields blooming on forest rims in the northern reaches of Michigan, Michigan being caught in a bowl of fresh lakes, laced with rivers, adorned with sand dunes, waterfalls, pine and maple. It’s at Pea Pickle Farm that we melt the summery sweet wax and pour candles and blocks in all shapes and sizes, seemingly preferring the shapes we see all around us: the critters and pine cones, the trees and ferns, the fish and the turtles and frogs. In winter, Pea Pickle Farm lies deep in snow. In spring, mud. Come summer, we are awash in daisies. Autumn surrounds us with cinnamon ferns, crimson leaves, golden grass. Our nights are dark, blessed by stars, but on a Full Moon, light shines. Coyotes howl. Wolves prowl. Owls hunt. Deer browse. A badger burrows. Dragonflies dart on a gentle river flowing swiftly by. We gaze clear through to pebbles and sand, fallen cedars, dreams. We dream a sweet dream: Pea Pickle Farm. 

Etsy photo shoot.
I don't know how these things work, but soon I was setting up a shop on Etsy - something I've been meaning to do the past two and a half years - and the process made me realize that if I do this, I better get on Twitter and Facebook, Twitter first, as I tried Facebook once and it freaked me out.

Well, no one told me that Twitter is fun, at least not so's I could hear it, and Pea Pickle Farm could have got waylaid right there, I was having so much fun, but for the fact that one can find (or at least this one did) inspiring people on Twitter who make you believe that, uh, it's OK to do what you want to do and moreover, you better get to it. At the moment, I only have two followers, one a loyal friend to my writing and one a complete stranger who I have so enjoyed following that I am honored that she follows me in return, even though I know I am not even a face in the crowd. I am used to writing for no one but myself, so this lack of followers does not bother me. Certainly, I hope my followers grow, as I am beginning to understand that Twitter is very much like old-fashioned word-of-mouth advertising, the best and cheapest way to promote anything, and make no mistake about it, I am trying to sell candles here and earn a living! But I also know, am learning, another thing, and it is trite, so somewhat embarrassing, but: I gotta be me!

So that's what Pea Pickle Farm is. It's me. In development. Welcome.